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Struggles Of Breast Feeding For New Mothers

Breastfeeding for new mothers

The bond between the baby and the mother begins the moment the fetus is formed in the womb, but the actual incredible magic of mother and child time begins with breastfeeding. One of the toughest jobs is breast feeding for new mothers. As wonderful and simple it may sound, it is not that easy initially. A for new moms it can be a cause for her anxiety. I would thus like to share the stages of difficulty that new mothers undergo while breastfeeding and certain tips that might help you get through with it.

The Beginning – latching

Once the child comes to this world after a few hours Itself the nurses and the lactation experts would advice the mother to start her breastfeeding for the baby. The initial three days milk contains colostrum that is the epitome of protein and the best nutrition that one can provide to the new born. But the issue here arises with the latching. If there if faulty latching in the beginning itself the baby wouldn’t be comfortable with the whole process. This usually makes the mother nervous and start questioning herself what went wrong. Here, in this situation you should take the advice of your lactation experts, they have tones of experience in this field and they would be of great help to you. Trust me I have been through the same. Taking help from experienced mom is the best advice to handle breast feeding for new mothers.

Knowing the exact position to provide comfort

Some information might be quite overwhelming, the head shouldn’t be quite low it might gah the baby. The position of the baby should be exactly right to match the height of the mother’s breast but not far away that he wouldn’t be able to latch. Also the mother shouldn’t be bending ahead a lot or else it might hurt her back quite a lot. So under such circumstances practise is the key , once the latch is correct and the baby is happy you will start getting the ring of it. Always use a nursing pillow or at-least a normal pillow while doing so helps with the posture of yourself and the baby. This technique of breast feeding for new mothers has proved to be helpful for many new moms I know personally.

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Pain of breastfeeding sets in

Once you have aced the technique of latching and the baby starts breastfeeding every two hours the pain in the nipple and the breasts set in. Some time it might be so excruciating that you feel your nipple might rip off, especially night times when the baby’s hunger hormones are at a surge they feel the need to feed more and thus make your nipples go dancing in pain. At this level you can take a simple pain killer like paracetamol before you start your feed at-least a couple of hours before. But it is advisable only if the pain is too much, and you are struggling a lot. Other option being cold compression, over the nipple and around your breast, this too works like a charm. And after a few weeks your body will adapt and the pain will disappear as if it was never there.

Baby gets bigger

Once the baby gets above four or five months he begins to get lot mischievous. The breastfeeding for new mothers becomes like a nightmare and it is challenging to feed the baby. He will start to pull on the nipple to listen to sounds going around him, or start biting on the nipple between his gums. Some kids even scratch their mother while nursing. Some pull on to their mother’s hair and the list goes on. Thus leaving the new mother struggling while breastfeeding. If you going through the same, set an atmosphere around while you take your baby for breastfeeding. Choose a calm n quite room with slow music or rhythm in the background with no one around you two to disturb. This will help build a habit and the baby would know it’s time for his breastfeeding and he would be comfortable.

Breastfeeding In public

Struggling to breastfeed in public places when you are out with your baby is always the top of the list. The people’s awkward reactions and you feeling guilty because of them as if you were about to commit a crime. But remember ladies it’s the most natural thing on earth. And you need not worry about anyone. The person who is starring now was once also breastfed by his mother. If she would have not acknowledged his need then he wouldn’t be a grown man today. So relax and get your baby.

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Lastly, babies feel the most secure with their mother one of the several reasons is breastfeeding. The struggle might be true but the outcome is always good. So happy parenting folks!!!

Dr. Krutika Kumaresan
Dr. Krutika Kumaresan MPT is an Adult and Paediatric Neuro therapist.I am a mother of a beautiful baby girl. She is the most precious thing to have happened to me. Motherhood in the eyes of a medical professional is completely different. Very often I find myself in a dilemma when she is sick I become frozen and panicked. As a first time mother it is sometimes overwhelming and full of surprises. Yes being in medical professional helps me tackle a few things here and there but what I have learnt through the journey so far is it’s okay to not know or being not able to decide for yourself. It’s okay if you seek somebody’s help. It doesn’t mean that you are weak or don’t have enough knowledge it just means you are new at this and trying to do your best. It takes great courage to accept your short comings and learn about it in the process. As a mother and as a medical professional I have just one advice and tip to all the parents out there do not ever try and compare your little one to other children. Every child is unique and is a blessing enjoy their childhood and let them be.                                                                                                                

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